Friday, January 04, 2008

Rules for being human


♦ You will receive a body. You may like it or hate it but it will be yours for the entire period this time around.
♦ You will learn lessons. You are enrolled in a full-time informal school called life. Each day in this school you will have the opportunity to learn lessons. You may like the lessons or think them irrelevant or stupid.
♦ There are no mistakes, only lessons. Growth is a process of trial and error...experimentation. The failed experiments are as much a part of the process as the experiment that ultimately works.
♦ A lesson is repeated until learned. A lesson will be presented to you in various forms until you have learned it. When you have learned it, you can then go on to the next lesson,
♦ Learning lessons does not end. There is no part of life that does not contain lessons. If you are alive, there are lessons to be learned.
♦ There is no better than here. When your there has become a here, you will simply attain another there that will, again, look better than here.
♦ Others are merely mirrors of you. You can not love or hate something about another person unless it reflects to you something you love or hate about yourself.
♦ What you make of your life is up to you. You have all the tools and resources you need. What you do with them is up to you. The choice is yours.
♦ The answers are inside you. The answers to life's questions lie inside you. All you need to do is Look, Listen and Trust.
♦ You will forget all this.

Credit: It seems that these words of wisdom were written by Cherie Carter-Scott in "If Life Is a Game, These Are the Rules:..."

I found the one about the mirrors very interesting, which ones resonate with you?
Love Bruv

5 comments:

Bruv said...

Just for your info, I have deleted a comment in spanish from Crescenet, which turned out to be a link to a Spanish financial services company, i.e. spam.

fuchsy said...

I love this poem bruv, was sent to me ages ago . I really repond to the life's lessons one , and the mistakes element !!AAAAAAAAAAAHHHHHHHH, but glad to say maybe I'm gradually learing from them .

Sue Alouche said...

I think I have read this before too Bruv. Did we discuss some of these points on here before? It rings a bell with me?

I really like some of the points she makes, but I find that some of the points are a little idealistic. It's pretty much targeted towards us in the Western World. I don't know what you think, but for me I don't feel that everyone has the opportunity to benefit and learn from the things she talks about.

What do you think?

Swan

Bruv said...

Hi Swan,

You may remember it from a book which I thought you had called Chicken Soup for the Soul.

I didnt follow your point about some being suited for the Western World.

I found some of it interesting but a bit New Agey for my tastes. For example, just to be controversial, if we are here to learn lessons then why are people just as selfish and uncaring as they have always been? Or do the ones who learn the lessons not come back ;-)

If anything, when I look at the history of mankind I think we have fallen from higher ideals rather than learned lessons! What do you think guys?
Love Bruv

Sue Alouche said...

Hi Bruv, what I meant about western world, is that the points she makes are really destined to those who do not live in third world countries, or countries torn by ongoing religious conflict. Yes, it's true that in those places there are lessons to be learnt/opportunities etc but I feel her text relates far more to us who live in more civilised, structured environments.

Sometimes when I look at programmes about these countries - one was on TV the other night about Iraq, I really wonder if I would want to go on living, sometimes it seems like a living hell.

Yes, I think you are right many people do not learn from their lessons in life, me included, we repeat the same things time and time again, until eventually it might sink in. Perhaps that's because we wonder if we have the power to change things in the overall scheme of things.

Can you explain your last paragraph in a bit more detail.

Much love Suex